I could have said, "obese," "overweight," "corpulent," "stout," or "chubby" instead of "fat," but that would be verbal reformulations, which are nicer ways to say "fat." It's sort of like saying "enhanced interrogation" of prisoners, instead of torture. I believe we all know what fat means and I think it best expresses how our children feel. Fat looks and feels ugly. Peers don't call your children obese, they call them fat. I realize that this expression is harsh but we have a current national health crisis and it's projected to get worse. According to the John Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health Center for Human Nutrition, 2007 study, "if the rate of obesity and overweight continues at its present pace, by 2015, 75 percent of adults, and nearly 24 percent of U.S. children and adolescents will be overweight or obese." Perhaps we all need an "in your face" dose of reality. By the way, I would never directly tell any kid that he/she is fat, but their peers will and even their siblings.
Parents, you may believe that there is nothing you can do about it. The majority do nothing. If one or both of you are fat, you probably feel you have no right to try to intervene. After all, your kid will surely say to any sincere effort to help, "Look who's talking!" -and you know, your child is correct. If you can't deal with your over-weight issue, you are not a creditable source for counsel. Right? There is still hope.
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If neither of you are fat, I guess you believe you are a creditable source to offer support--- more so than fat parents. Yet, there are many things to understand about your fat children. They are emotionally hurting. They receive frequent reminders that they are too big-their mirrors broadcast it; their peers at school callously tease them and television and teen magazines remind them of how they should look.
Children do not focus on health issues; they focus on how they are accepted by their peers. Thus, lecturing about potential problems (diabetes) does not make an impression nor provide much motivation to lose weight. They want to be included, valued, and liked by their peers. They become aware that their fatness prevents them for achieving these powerful and normal needs. At this junction, they have a greater potential for depression and anxiety, which may lead to more over-eating.
Girls tend to internalize their distress through depression and poor self-esteem and boys tend to externalize, perhaps by acting-out, fighting, drug/alcohol use or other anti-social behaviors. They feel their normal childhoods are stolen from them, their discontents are enormous, and their futures are bleak. How do I know this? They have shared these feelings with me in psychotherapy. I felt their pain as their therapist.
With the expected cautionary advice, children should receive a thorough examination to rule out any medical issue that may be contributing to their weight status. When a medical issue exists, it is the joint responsibility of the doctor and the parents to assist the child. Consult with other professionals such as a nutritionist or dietician. If no medical issue is viewed in the etiology, parents need to keenly observe life-style choices made by their youngsters and themselves. This is easily said, but very difficult to do. Understand that children, and those youths that are now called tweens (ages 11, 12, and 13), are not fully developed in self-disciple skills (psychologists call it self-regulatory traits) and perform poorly in supervising their own behavior choices. It becomes the parent's responsibility to assist them without coming off as lecturing, nagging and creating power-struggles. This is a difficult balancing act.
With the onset of puberty, the changing body of both sexes can be overwhelming for some. Recent research on the effects of puberty clearly indicates that for most tweens and teenagers, puberty is not perceived as a negative event. Puberty does not cause your child to be fat. For those without a medical basis, what does cause our youngsters to be fat? Let's examine what you already know.
Think of the word sedentary. Now think television, cell phones, video games, movies, driving or being driven in a car, school bus riding, reduction of physical education classes, increased hours dedicated to sleeping and a host of other behaviors, and you realize that all of these activities are not active, but sedentary. With huge numbers of Moms in the work force, food preparation, planning of nutritional meals and the resolve to monitor their kid's intake of fatty foods are weaken by the fatigue of contemporary life. Pizza places, burger joints and fried chicken shacks line the major arteries of our towns and cities, beckoning the family to park their big butts and eat this stuff with fries on the side. Of course, all of this can be super-sized!
With the advent of two spouses working, maid and lawn services are often incorporated. I've lived in several middle-class subdivisions, where lawn service workers descend upon the neighborhoods to edge, cut, trim and groom the lawns, while pre-teens and teens casually walk around with their cell phones stuck to their ears, and of course, multitasking by eating a peanut butter/jelly sandwich on white bread. I don't think children are lazy, but simply are not guided effectively by their parents. Think of the calories that could be burned with pushing a vacuum cleaner or lawn mower or washing the car!
Parent Do's and Don'ts.
- As parents, don't complain about the way you look. It's likely that your child will do the same. Also, don't make negative comments about other people's sizes, as our children will incorporate the idea that if they grow to look like the people you criticize, they will disappoint you. They don't want to be a failure in your eyes.
- If one or both of you are fat, don't instruct your fat child to do what you don't do. In other words, if you can't model an appropriate diet or exercise program, keep your mouth shut until you are able to be an effective model. If you want them off the couch, you get off the couch.
- Without nagging, encourage physical exercise by making it a family activity. Make a request for your child to join you, never make a demand as the latter might ignite a power-struggle. If you don't get what you request, desire or wish, you will not be as upset if you don't get what you demand.
- Avoid on-going discussions about diets. Most children and teens are aware of diets. If you push the issue, they are more likely to become oppositional and defiant.
- As a family, learn about nutrition and exercise. They are more likely to cooperate.
- Debunk the myth that "looking good" is the most important thing in their acceptance by others. Honestly focus on their attributes independent of their body type.
- Most healthy meals can be prepared in about thirty minutes, about the same time it would take to drive to go eat at a fast food place. Try to eat most of your meals at home so you can reduce the fatty foods.
- Take your children grocery shopping with you. Together, pick out foods that they might enjoy that are part of a good diet.
- When you view your children making efforts toward healthy eating and exercise, praise them.
- When all possible, eat together as a family. Make an effort to have pleasant conversations. Eating becomes associated to positive activities as oppose to food and eating being associated to anxiety. Parents, never use food as a positive reinforcement with your children.
- Plan celebrations around a pleasant activity, not a food fest where over-eating may occur.
- If your child reaches out to you and confides that he is being teased; listen, comfort, don't lecture, don't threaten to go to school and confront the teasing children, the principal, teacher; just listen and comfort. Ask the child if you can be of any assistance, and accept his answer.
- If the child asks for help, act on it to the best of your ability. If you need assistance, find resources in the community. Behavior modification programs have been demonstrated to be effective for weight issues.
- If you suspect that your child has an eating disorder, such as compulsive eating, bulimia or hiding food in their rooms; seek professional help.
Obesity in children, in most cases can be resolved. It requires a dedicated effort by the parents. Once unhealthy eating patterns are established, it is difficult, but not impossible, to reverse. Parents have to be the ones who guide their children who have this debilitating disorder. This must be the parents' mind-set. Obesity can evolve into a life long issue with serious consequences. If you rely on the child to do something about it, you have established faulty thinking. If you think your child will "out grow' the problem, you are wrong. As parents, you must respond as if your child has a treatable disease. There must be discussion between Mom and Dad so both will be on the same page as to what concerted plan is in place. You must be in concert. More than anything else, model what you wish your child to witness in your eating habits, exercise and life-style. Let them see you denying yourself the second serving of the potatoes, getting off the couch to go walk, taking the stairs rather than the elevator and washing your own car. Day after day, they will gradually witness good habits, and without a word being spoken, they will follow. Do it. Your child's health, body image and self-esteem are worth this effort. Don't you think so?
Cyber Monday Toro 20360 e-Cycler 20-Inch 36-Volt Cordless Electric Lawn Mower 2011 Deals
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Cyber Monday Toro 20360 e-Cycler 20-Inch 36-Volt Cordless Electric Lawn Mower Feature
- Redesigned packaging for 2011 to reduce shipping damage
- Weighs only 77 lbs – lighter than most other battery/cordless mowers.
- Simple two-step operator controls – integrated one-handed control assembly with two-step action – safe and easy to use.
- The 4-inch deep-domed deck design is specially designed for superior mulching performance.
- 2-Year Full Coverage Warranty.
Cyber Monday Toro 20360 e-Cycler 20-Inch 36-Volt Cordless Electric Lawn Mower Overview
This mower is environmentally friendly; it runs on a 36 volt cordless system which is powerful and emissions-free. It is equipped with a 20 in. mulching deck and the 4 in. deep-domed deck design is specifically designed for superior mulching performance. It is also lightweight - weighing only 77 pounds, making it lighter than most other battery/cordless mowers.Cyber Monday Toro 20360 e-Cycler 20-Inch 36-Volt Cordless Electric Lawn Mower Specifications
The Toro 20360 e-Cycler Cordless Mower is a push power mower that features superior mulching performance and a lightweight design. Because it's battery powered, this mower will spare you from the hassles of buying gas or oil and will save you money, time, and energy. For further convenience, the e-Cycle is easy to operate and features a durable steel deck that cuts a 20-inch swath and is height adjustable to meet your needs.
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 Sturdy 7" front wheels and 8" rear wheels make the e-Cycler easy to maneuver. |
With the e-Cycler Cordless Mower, you won't have to worry about refueling, buying gas or oil, or dealing with messy spills in your garage or shed. The powerful, emission-free, 36-volt battery will give you up to 10,000 square feet of mowing on just one charge.
Easy Starts and Trouble-Free Operation
To start the e-Cycler, simply insert the key and move the control lever toward the handle. The sturdy and thick 7-inch front wheels and 8-inch rear wheels make the mower easy to maneuver, while the small profile of the 20-inch dome allows you to mow in those hard-to-reach places.
Choose from Mulching or Bag Collection
The deep-domed deck is specially designed to increase the performance of the e-Cycler mulching system, which minces grass clippings into fine particles, putting them back onto your lawn to give you a healthy, lush looking yard.
If you'd prefer to collect your grass and leaf clippings, you can quickly and easily attach the grass bag.
Powerful Battery is Easy to Charge
The e-Cycler's battery is charged at the factory, so you can get started mowing right away. After that, it takes approximately 12 to 16 hours to fully charge a depleted battery.
It's recommended that you charge the battery after each use with the included charger cord, which plugs directly into a household outlet. To make things simple, a two-color LED tells you whether your battery is charging or is fully charged.
Warranty Information
The Toro 20360 e-Cycler Cordless Mower is backed by a two-year warranty that offers full coverage for the mower and the battery.
What's in the Box
Toro 20360 e-Cycler Cordless Mower, battery, and charger cord.
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